I had to come clean about many things in my life. Deep down inside, I knew things weren't right in my heart. I wanted a change in my life for many years, but denied that I was ever the problem because I believed my husband was. I knew all along that my heart was bitter … Continue reading When God Shows You The Hard Truth About Yourself →

It was an uphill battle to undo all the damage in our marriage. By the time I realized we were in serious trouble, everything between us was completely shattered. It wasn't until nearly twenty years together, that I actually took into account my own behaviors. Year after year, I was trying to chip away at … Continue reading Respecting the Real Needs of a Man →

I had plummeted down this long dark hole and finally hit rock bottom. I sat there alone in this dark place wondering how I got there. I felt so alone and distanced from the ones that I loved. I had no idea how I would get myself out of this desolate place. Everything in my … Continue reading Create In Me A Clean Heart →

I had one foot out the door. I was ready to throw in the towel and call it quits, always one step away from divorce. I was so sick and tired of the same old story, the same old problems that would reoccur time and time again. It seemed that nothing was ever going to … Continue reading Fall In Love With Your Spouse All Over Again →

One by one, the negative things began to add up. I always belittled anything my husband ever did. I never respected any of his ideas. I shot him down with total disregard. In my eyes, there wasn't anything that he could ever do right. It's embarrassing to admit this ... but I wouldn't even let … Continue reading Even Little Gestures Of Love Can Save Marriages →

The moment that my husband had given up on trying to make me happy, was the moment that I realized my happiness was up to me. This was when it became clear that I was unhappy because of something missing inside of me … I wasn’t happy with who I had become, and because of … Continue reading Happiness Is A Choice That Can Save Marriages →

I wasn’t even aware of my bitterness as wife because I was so busy looking at my husband’s faults that I didn't notice my own. I thought that as a wife, I was entitled to tell my husband to go take a hike. There was nothing gentle about my soul, and it was wrecking havoc … Continue reading Don’t Let Bitterness Poison Your Marriage →