I thought I had it all figured out. I thought I was in control. Well, I was in control alright, of everything but myself. I made sure that I told my husband just how it was going to be. I put my own two cents in whenever I could. I was so busy telling him … Continue reading The Road Back To Me →

My husband tried everything to make me happy. He practically turned himself inside out just to bring a smile to my face. He tried relentlessly to be my hero, and to rescue me from my own misery, but the more he tried, the more unhappy I became. One day he asked himself, "What in the … Continue reading … And They Lived Happily Ever After →

Do we often find ourselves wondering, "Who am I, really?" Maybe we have begun to notice that we have been swept away by the strong current of people's opinions, judgments, wants, and desires. As we look back at all that lies behind us, we suddenly realize we have been pulled way off shore. We find … Continue reading How Do You See Yourself? →

I know that some of us as wives really believe that our unhappiness is our husband's fault. There was a time that I believed that too. I was so convinced of it, that my resentment and vengeance turned my heart into stone. I spent years blaming him for my unhappiness, instead of discovering my own. … Continue reading Is Unhappiness Really Our Husband’s Fault? →