I know that some of us as wives really believe that our unhappiness is our husband's fault. There was a time that I believed that too. I was so convinced of it, that my resentment and vengeance turned my heart into stone. I spent years blaming him for my unhappiness, instead of discovering my own. … Continue reading Is Unhappiness Really Our Husband’s Fault? →

There was a time when I believed that my husband was the cause of my unhappiness. The very thought of this in my mind nearly caused me to leave him. I had it in my mind that if I left him, everything in my life would change for the better, I would finally be happy, […]

My life began to change when I finally realized that I was making my husband the object of my happiness (or unhappiness) … searching somewhere in the midst of his life, to fulfill mine. After years of living behind his identity, my own was nowhere to be found. I actually began envisioning my own funeral, … Continue reading Happiness Depends On Me →

Why have our hearts broken into shattered pieces? Maybe it's that we don't love ourselves enough to change and make better choices. We continue to do the same old things, and expect different results, only to find ourselves with nothing left to hang onto, but the end of our rope. On the day my daughter … Continue reading Healing Our Brokenness →