How To Make Your Husband Feel Like A Man

A submissive wife understands her husband is hard-wired to lead and protect her. She knows submission is the most precious gift she can give to him. Her compatible nature makes him feel like he’s the ultimate man for her. She proves that she looks up to him, and values his decisions, just by the way she shows a genuine interest in his preferences.

Her keen ears are tuned into his cues for the significance he needs like oxygen. He is not controlling, demanding, manipulating, or persuasive. His subtle approach in communicating his needs is a sign she yields to him submissively. There is no need for him to fight for authority.

Once she is certain of who she is in Christ, submitting to her man is something she looks forward to everyday in life. She is amazed how fulfilled she has become in this godly role, as she joyfully brings peace and order to their home. She has pondered the Bible verses directed towards her as a wife, and faithfully steps out in faith with these virtues. She knows a virtuous women is a crown to her husband and she aspires to be a noble woman of good character.

Her respectful and welcoming spirit makes him feel like he’s no stranger in his own home. She is stable with her emotions. She has mastered self-control. She makes wise and rational decisions, knowing exactly what will please him. She is frugal, watching how she spends money, and sticks to the allowed budget he has provided.

Her home is neat and tidy. She is resourceful and has gracefully tapped into her true nature as the keeper at home. She doesn’t have a resentful and discontented soul. He knows she will not bring him grief. She looks to serve him like a king.

She is quickened by the Holy Spirit and examines herself closely, knowing that all of her words and actions begin with her thoughts. Such a woman takes every negative thought captive and replaces it by focusing on her husband’s good qualities. She listens carefully to every word in her mind before she opens her mouth, preventing her from saying something distasteful. She makes sure she builds him up and praises him.

A submissive wife knows how to get out of her husband’s way to lead her. She has learned to step back and trust his judgement, finally finding herself in this heavenly place where he loves and cherishes her.

15 thoughts on “How To Make Your Husband Feel Like A Man

    1. Hello KB, First and foremost we must submit to the Lord because he is our true joy and fulfillment. Secondly, always pray for guidance for what to do, what to say, and how to please your own husband. What one husband likes, another may not. Practically speaking, pray for God to show you the opportunities where you can submit to your husband. There will be many! Some of the most common ways to practically submit to a husband is to understand and accept that he is the leader of the home and you are created for him as his help meet. (When he says to do something agree with it and do it.) If the role as husband and wife are properly balanced, he will be more than willing to hear her suggestions. (Do not argue against his final decisions.) Also, ask your husband what he wants done daily. This will put him in a position of authority. After God, he is your top priority. I hope this help you. I am always here for your comments.


      1. “When he says to do something agree with it and do it.” Tough pill to swallow for most but biblical truth. Obey in everything but sin. Has obeying your husband in everything gotten easier overtime? What if your husband wants to decide what you wear daily or wants sex multiple times a day? Thank you for embracing God’s word :).

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      2. This is why it is so important to pray and be in constant communication with the Holy Spirit to guide you. For example, we certainly do not want to dress for our husbands in a sexy or lustful way in public and think thats going to be a wise choice. My husband has said before that it’s ok to wear a bikini on the lake as long as your not prancing around without a cover up on. I honestly do not want to wear a bikini anymore, but I didn’t argue about it. I just mentioned in a gentle manner that I’m not comfortable wearing them anymore. He said, “ok.” Sometimes, it’s all about how we approach the situation. The Bible says we are to have a gentle and peaceful spirit for our own protection too.

        Yes, it takes faith and practice to learn to submit to our husbands and sometimes it still is difficult, but mostly, it brings me so much joy and fulfillment to see my husband”s basic needs fulfilled too. The blessings and rewards are immeasurable. As far as your husband wanting sex multiple times a day, as long as it is keeping him satisfied with you, I’d say it’s a good thing. His desire for you is a compliment. If you feel it is too much for you, like I said before, you can gently mention that you love having sex with him, but sometimes you’d like just a back rub too, or a foot massage. What do you think?


      1. One last question lol. What if your husband is asking you to do something sexually that isn’t necessarily a sin but you’re not comfortable with do you still obey?


    1. I guess the last post was too blunt sorry. But I’m confused should a wife submit if he insists? I know he shouldn’t but what if he does keep insisting. His pleasure over being uncomfortable from a biblical point of view?


      1. A wife submits because she is willing to, not because he is insisting she does. The choice is yours. It is for you to pray upon and listen to the Holy Spirit guide you. Whatever you do, it should be because you are both in agreement.


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